Blog : a blog?

Quoting california_life:

Why is it that the majority of the so-called 'blog' entries on this website are simply from those looking for blatant sexual extravagances? Or people posing to be someone when it is so obvious that they uploaded a picture from a Google image search? Anyway, I assumed I'd post a blog because I'm bored and even though I'd usually never see myself on a bi-version, replica of e-harmony I'm just bored enough to do it anyway.

The weird thing is I'm not really sure how to blog, I mean I've never actually read anyone's blog so if I stray from the blog guidelines/rulebook then let me apologize now. Firstly, I'm 18, except I actually am 18, unlike many other users who simply put 18 on their profile thinking they'd get a better interest gathering only to then post a picture of themselves and are so obviously not 18 that I almost want to laugh out loud. I live in southern California and my life is essentially a large collection of MTV's Laguna Beach episodes minus the cameramen. Ironic enough as it is I actually had a crush on Kristin from the show, everyone always thought she was such a (insert profane word here), but I always thought she was so hot. And interestingly enough I also had a crush on Stephen, her boyfriend. My ex-boyfriend reminds me of him except he doesn't at the same time, long story, maybe I'll save it for another blog when I get bored enough to feel like sharing.

A more interesting story, and probably more appropriate for this forum was when I realized I liked girls. It still is weird to say slash think about, but I'm learning to accept it with each passing day. Only a handful of my friends know, my very close, trusted friends. I have yet to fully come to terms with it. I don't know what else to say about it really, I mean I like guys and at the same time I'm also attracted to girls. One of my friends said she thought I was too pretty to be into girls and it made me laugh. The softball slash manly female stereotype bothers me, but I get that it's in our nature to categorize.

Well, sadly I have to go, but also thankfully for my social life. I'll be on again and I love comments so leave me one below:)

Why is it that the majority of the so-called 'blog' entries on this website are simply from those looking for blatant sexual extravagances? Or people posing to be someone when it is so obvious that they uploaded a picture from a Google image search? Anyway, I assumed I'd post a blog because I'm bored and even though I'd usually never see myself on a bi-version, replica of e-harmony I'm just bored enough to do it anyway.

The weird thing is I'm not really sure how to blog, I mean I've never actually read anyone's blog so if I stray from the blog guidelines/rulebook then let me apologize now. Firstly, I'm 18, except I actually am 18, unlike many other users who simply put 18 on their profile thinking they'd get a better interest gathering only to then post a picture of themselves and are so obviously not 18 that I almost want to laugh out loud. I live in southern California and my life is essentially a large collection of MTV's Laguna Beach episodes minus the cameramen. Ironic enough as it is I actually had a crush on Kristin from the show, everyone always thought she was such a (insert profane word here), but I always thought she was so hot. And interestingly enough I also had a crush on Stephen, her boyfriend. My ex-boyfriend reminds me of him except he doesn't at the same time, long story, maybe I'll save it for another blog when I get bored enough to feel like sharing.

A more interesting story, and probably more appropriate for this forum was when I realized I liked girls. It still is weird to say slash think about, but I'm learning to accept it with each passing day. Only a handful of my friends know, my very close, trusted friends. I have yet to fully come to terms with it. I don't know what else to say about it really, I mean I like guys and at the same time I'm also attracted to girls. One of my friends said she thought I was too pretty to be into girls and it made me laugh. The softball slash manly female stereotype bothers me, but I get that it's in our nature to categorize.

Well, sadly I have to go, but also thankfully for my social life. I'll be on again and I love comments so leave me one below:)

Quoting Aircuh1:

i would have to say i 100% agree with you on this whole thing!!
i was very skeptic on whether people are really who they say they are on here, makes me nervous and yet annoyed that people would even lie about it in the first place.
How are you suppose to get anywhere on here if you're lying !!
Needless to say, you seem like a very open minded person. (which is very attractive in a person :P)
very impressed with your "first Blog"
:)

i would have to say i 100% agree with you on this whole thing!!
i was very skeptic on whether people are really who they say they are on here, makes me nervous and yet annoyed that people would even lie about it in the first place.
How are you suppose to get anywhere on here if you're lying !!
Needless to say, you seem like a very open minded person. (which is very attractive in a person :P)
very impressed with your "first Blog"
:)

Quoting RavenWinter:

Actually one of my friends that is a girl told me that I was too cute to like girls. I was like like it has nothing to do with what you look like. Relationships are about the conncetions you form with people not whether or not that person is a girl or a guy. Be proud of who you are! :) It is totally okay to like both!

Actually one of my friends that is a girl told me that I was too cute to like girls. I was like like it has nothing to do with what you look like. Relationships are about the conncetions you form with people not whether or not that person is a girl or a guy. Be proud of who you are! :) It is totally okay to like both!

Quoting abitdark:

Nice rant, It's pretty much the same thing I was thinking.

I've been out for a while now (about 4 years) though I am mainly attracted to women. I have come to notice that most the time people in the LGB community can't actually accept that I'm bi. Most the time either the woman assume I'm gay because I don't sit there and hit on them, and the men think I'm straight because I like to look at women (and I do act straight, I just don't like flamey men) So far it has been a loose, loose situation. So I have been single for a while now and I don't run around trying to pick up on anything and everything. So not every one are horn dogs (granted I haven't posted a blog or anything on here like the people you are complaining about) It's just the ones that aren't tend to get over looked or judged in a wrong way :-) And there is the fact that a lot of people gay or straight can't accept the fact the we aren't attracted to just one or the other, its always got to be a gay or straight label and to that I tell them "Your an idiot" ;-)

I have noticed though, that a lot of Bi-people are different because they do understand how I feel about things, and tend to actually be Less horn dogs then most.... In the right crowd that is...

anyway, Ill keep an eye out for more of you blogging :-)

Nice rant, It's pretty much the same thing I was thinking.

I've been out for a while now (about 4 years) though I am mainly attracted to women. I have come to notice that most the time people in the LGB community can't actually accept that I'm bi. Most the time either the woman assume I'm gay because I don't sit there and hit on them, and the men think I'm straight because I like to look at women (and I do act straight, I just don't like flamey men) So far it has been a loose, loose situation. So I have been single for a while now and I don't run around trying to pick up on anything and everything. So not every one are horn dogs (granted I haven't posted a blog or anything on here like the people you are complaining about) It's just the ones that aren't tend to get over looked or judged in a wrong way :-) And there is the fact that a lot of people gay or straight can't accept the fact the we aren't attracted to just one or the other, its always got to be a gay or straight label and to that I tell them "Your an idiot" ;-)

I have noticed though, that a lot of Bi-people are different because they do understand how I feel about things, and tend to actually be Less horn dogs then most.... In the right crowd that is...

anyway, Ill keep an eye out for more of you blogging :-)

Quoting Darkerberry:

I thought it was just me with these blogs! Its like everybody is a bunch of horne dogs.. Anyway i know what you mean finding it hard to see youreself as likening women, I still cant see myself saying "im a lesbian" and i am attracted to men but women attract me mentally and when they are studs/butch they attract me visually.

*shrugs shoulders

I thought it was just me with these blogs! Its like everybody is a bunch of horne dogs.. Anyway i know what you mean finding it hard to see youreself as likening women, I still cant see myself saying "im a lesbian" and i am attracted to men but women attract me mentally and when they are studs/butch they attract me visually.

*shrugs shoulders

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