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lachaumono
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Posted on 06/03/2006

Im new this whole girl/girl thing and i have no idea where to start. I mean i love men and then i think im starting to have and interest in girls as well. Im confused and dont know what to do about it. Im sure someone could help me out with this. I mean, my fam doesnt know neither do my closest friend. I was at a club one night and i was approached by someone but didnt know how to handle it so i just grabbed the nearest person and said, "IM WITH HIM", to avoid what would happen next. Im begging like a crack head who needs a hit, HELP ME PLEEEEEAZE!!! Who ever reads this please give me some advice...I need it. I would be very appreciative..Thanks


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bigtittieswett
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Posted on 07/15/2006

Go with the flow of it baby.Don't let that good thing do without the joy of being with another female/woman. Your body is calling for another woman to please it like no man can GIVE INTO IT BABY!!!! Good luck with getting your yummie yummie ate out.



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Posted on 07/11/2006

You have heard this before, how someone know how you feel. I do too.. wow what a surprise! I would like to say, I tried with a female, my first time EVER!Always curious, but would never take the plunge,. I did. With my friend. Let me tell you this.. I still get turned on thinking about it. It was great, I have never been so hot in my life. Awesome. YOU MUST TRY IT... with someone you trust!



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Posted on 07/09/2006

Mmmm...I know how you feel, I was there a while ago and even now with experience, I haven't enough courage to approach any girl I might see. Being with a girl is...wow! I can't explain but if you're truly bi, you'll know when you kiss for the first time:-) I say if you're attracted to someone and they express interest, flirt back, see what happens. Are there any bi/lesbian dance clubs where you live? You might be more flirtatious and act on your feelings if you're not attracting attention. If there was such a club in my area, I would definitely hang out there:-)



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Aforgivensin
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Posted on 06/08/2006

I think that you cant have an opinion without having tried it.
I agree with what you have been told so far, go with it. It can be scary, intimidating, etc...but wasnt it also exciting, thrilling and sexy?
Do what feels good, do what feel comfortable...
I am 36 and deep in the closet myself. I have spoken to some who are like minded, but my family doesnt know much about this and I for one want to keep it that way.
Talking with another woman doesnt mean your taking her home. Talk, get to know someone, let her know how you feel and where you are.
Good luck!



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lachaumono
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Posted on 06/05/2006

Oh i know it will be easier to tell a guy friend than a girl friend...Cuz honestly they think its hott when girls are digging one another. But thanks for the advice marco33 sweety.



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Posted on 06/05/2006

You are in a phase.. It just depends on how you think now, you can control your thoughts! But if you feel you need to explore then do so.I am in the same boat except with guys, i told my closest friend about it and now i just ride with the flow, if i see i hot guy ,i do look at him, same with girls. It will be easier for you to tell a guy friend than a girl friend.



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Posted on 06/04/2006

I so know that feeling! All I can say is just to go with it. Dont think about what anyone else would say, just let life happen and see if you enjoy yourself. It could be the best thing that has ever happened to U! =)



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