I'm curious and interested, if not a little scared. I've yet to be with another man, but want to. I'm in New England and would like to hear from others who may understand what I'm feeling.

I'm originally from New England and waited until I moved to the city to come out as bi. I'm sure there are bi/gay guys in small towns all over, but it seems impossible to meet them without becoming known far and wide. I would take some trips to the city and go to some gay bars to see if you like it. Otherwise maybe you'll find some luck online.
Good luck!