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Apr 14, 2022
Threesomes have been a staple of porn and erotica for years, but when you ask couples what their real-life threesome experience was like, the numbers are overwhelmingly stacked in favor of FFM threesomes rather than MMF threesomes. Why? Is it just because women are more attracted to each other than men being attracted to each other in a similar way? Or do women prefer FFM threesomes because they offer more variety and intimacy? We’ll explore the topic below and compare both types of threesomes to give you some insight into which one might be right for you.
A threesome is a form of sexual activity where three people engage in sexual activity. The term is most commonly used to describe a sexual experience between three people, all of whom have sex with each other. Two women having sex with a man is a threesome that's commonly referred to as FFM. On the other hand, a threesome that includes two men and one woman is referred to as an MMF
While both types of a threesome can offer a good time, with two people to play with, some believe that there are more pros to having an FFM. For one thing, a woman with a woman is a lot more intimate, slow and delicate. Women like to nurture and explore every inch of another woman's body. Plus, it’s an easy way for everyone involved to get some action without worrying about ruining someone else’s fun by being too hands-on. It also opens up an opportunity for you and your partner(s) to explore what turns each other on; maybe he likes watching her pleasure you—it’s worth finding out!
However, if the man wants to participate, one woman can get a bit left out. On top of that, if you’re attempting to include another woman with your partner, this can add some pressure on your relationship. Some of your relationship weaknesses can become weaker, so make sure to have very open conversations about rules before you take on this intercourse.
It should be noted that many people who participate in FFM activities also have MFM experiences.
While it’s typically considered taboo, a good MFF (three-way) can be something to fantasize about for couples looking to step up their sex life. With two bodies to choose from and three mouths to please, an MFF offers a lot of opportunity for experimentation—and experts say that’s not a bad thing. Sex is often about discovery, which often involves experiencing new things together, which is what an MFF allows you to do. But like all things in life (except your morning coffee), there are some pros and cons of engaging in an MFF threesome.
One thing to note is that MFF is a lot more intense for the woman than it is for the man. Why? The answer is simple, the woman will be targeted from different angles and from both ends of the body. If your fantasy is to be taken advantage of and feel desirable by two men, then this should definitely be your choice over FFM.
For men, this might not be the best option if you don’t like the sight of other men seeing or touching your girlfriend, or seeing another man hook up and get his kink on. It's not always the more preferable option for men, but it means that you can also get inspired and use new techniques with your partner at a later time!
One of life’s most pressing questions can finally be answered: do women prefer having sex with one man and another woman, or two men? The answer is... it depends. We can speak in generalities as far as numbers go. One survey estimates that more than 20% of single people have tried a threesome at least once. There are entire magazines dedicated to helping couples figure out how to convince their significant other to agree to a threesome, suggesting it will bring them closer together and make for great anecdotes down the road when telling stories over drinks to friends.
But it really depends on the people you are having the threesome with. Some people like to get down and dirty and enjoy rough intercourse. Whereas others prefer something more gentle, subtle and intimate. Speak to the people involved and decide together. Maybe you can try both FFM and MMF!
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