Threesome for Beginners: The Definitive Guide

Jan 21, 2020

Unicorns are a hard bunch to find. However, once hunted and coaxed, these sexual philanthropists can add immense value to relationships. They can cater to the needs of both you and your sexual partner. They do, however, require you to treat them with a modicum of respect, not like emotionless sex toys. In any human relationship, and especially in threesomes, the feelings of every individual are paramount.

With that being said, there are a lot of misconceptions surrounding threesomes. In this article, we’ll try to separate myth from fact so that you have a clearer vision of what to expect from a threesome.

1. A Threesome is not supposed to reignite your broken relationship

Finding a partner for a threesome in the hopes of mending your relationship is a gross misconception. Not only can it deviate your attention from the problem at hand, but it can also add another complicating dynamic to your relationship, and further exacerbate things.

The best thing to do if you are having relationship problems is to sit down and talk it out. Is there something you want your partner to do sexually? Or are you finding it hard to reinvigorate lost intimacy? Whatever it is, be courageous enough to voice your concern.

And if that doesn’t work, there’s always couples therapy.

2. A Threesome Contract should be Comprehensive and Meticulous

Yes, if you’ve found a unicorn, then make sure you discuss everything with them. Don’t leave anything to the imagination, as it may breed serious problems for your relationship in the long run.

Discuss with your partner first that what he or she deems appropriate. Then, proceed to your unicorn, and set boundaries with them.

This will streamline the entire process and gauge expectations in the manner that protects the sanctity of your relationships, while also ensuring you have the sexual experience of your life.

3. Jealousy is sometimes inevitable

Yes, despite laying down every detail, jealousy sometimes can’t be helped. Your partner might misinterpret your interaction with the unicorn as sidelining and feel left out.

Even if you’re just making the best of the situation and there’s not a bone in your body that wants to hurt your partner, the human mind can seriously drive itself into confusion and frustration. There’s no helping that.

They think that there is nothing more to life or love. This somehow existentialises their relationship; it recedes their drive for exploration that was once a mainstay of their love.

So, if you can’t manage your jealousy, then you’re not ready for a threesome.

4. Follow Safe Sex Practices Strictly

Condoms, dental dams, are a MUST in every threesome for obvious reasons. Your threesome should be a nostalgic retrospection of steamy sex, not a gross reminder of STIs. And remember, condoms aren’t just rubber for dicks, they are also dressing for sex toys. The bottom-line: don’t take unwanted risks; go the extra mile to ensure sex safety.

5. You might have to consider the possibility of losing your lover

Yes, spending a lot of time with a unicorn can sometimes break relationships. Catching feelings is quite possible. So, you have to consider this vital risk before imitating a threesome relationship of any sort. This has happened to a lot of people in the past and it’s not a myth by any stretch of the imagination.

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