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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 12:13 AM

I'm just wondering where everyone is hiding...there are so many blogs and forum topics started but barely any actual posts. They've been read and read but no replies. I'm also curious to know if anyone else is feeling completely confused about our bi side. I am. I am very attracted to women and I also adore men. Top that off with the fact that my husband doesn't really now about me likeing girls. I think he'd be fine with it; I'm the one with the issues. Would it mess up my marriage if I physically acted on it? I'm struggling with the Christian aspect of it as well. Is it a sin? I hate these feelings! Does anyone else have troubles like mine? I need some advise or thoughts. I feel like I'm a bad person here somehow and I know I'm not. Thanks for letting me vent and worry.

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Posted on Thu, Aug 24, 2017 10:39 PM

I agree it's not as socially acceptable for men and that's wrong.  It's not just sexuality, men are not really allowed to have a wide range of emotions in our western culture and it's sad. We have these unrealistic views of masculinity - in the same way we have unrealistic expectations of the female body and the behavior of women- except we don't talk about masculinity as a culture. It's scary to be vulnerable with the people we are most invested in - we have the most to lose. 


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Posted on Mon, Aug 21, 2017 07:08 PM

Most men, myself included fetishize female bisexuality so are ok with it.  Us men are not so lucky.  It would not bother me if my wife was bi, but I am and can't bring myself to tell her.


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Posted on Tue, Mar 07, 2017 10:35 AM

I am personally dealing with the should I or shouldn't I game... I want to explore that side of myself but I am scared.  I have an amazing husband who fully supports me in whatever I should decide but this might be the toughest decision I have ever made in my life. 


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Posted on Thu, Mar 02, 2017 08:50 AM

I think we all feel about the same way, yes?  We are conflicted with our desires for 'both'.  I was married for many years (she died some time ago) and she never knew.  [I had to sneak around and I am not proud of it.]  I knew if she did know she would have freaked out.  She once said those people who are bi-sexual "just can't make up their minds".  Well, everyone here on this site knows that is not how it works.  We don't 'choose' whether we are 'straight' or 'bi' or 'gay' or 'lesbian', we just are.


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Posted on Sat, Nov 19, 2016 11:47 AM

I feel the same way wow glad im not alone....


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Posted on Thu, Sep 08, 2011 10:42 PM

you never know till you start making hints. u may be surprised


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Posted on Thu, May 06, 2010 04:25 PM

I FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO BUT I DID TELL MY HUSBAND AFTER 23 YRS OF MARRIAGE AND HE HAS ACCEPTED IT(AFTER 3 MOS. OF MALE EGO GETTING IN THE WAY) I'VE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH THIS MY WHOLE LIFE AND KEPT IT HIDDEN FROM EVERYONE I LOVED. I'M 46 AND HAVE THOUGHT THESE THOUGHTS SINCE THE AGE OF 16. SOMETIMES I FEEL SICK AND TWISTED KNOWING THAT I WOULD LET MY THOUGHTS GO IN THAT DIRECTION BECAUSE OF THE WAY I WAS RAISED(CHRISTIAN). I'M CONFUSED AND NOT SURE OF MYSELF AND SCARED TO DEATH THAT MY FANTASY COULD COME TRUE

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Posted on Thu, Dec 13, 2007 08:51 AM

hey thanks for your input. i just read your reply and i am in a similar boat with my current love. we just decided that having a threesome would be fun and have talked about it for a while. it is nice to know that there are couples out there like us. :-)

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Posted on Sun, Nov 11, 2007 02:04 PM

It's crazy. I'm absolutly in love with this married woman which is bad enough but then I also can't stop thinking about big cocks. And I am looking for some large ines in Lincoln, NE

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Posted on Wed, Nov 07, 2007 08:50 AM

Same problem here. I am sometimes curious/sexually attracted to men, married and my wife does not know. She would probably freak if I tell her about this. No clue about a solution.

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Posted on Fri, Oct 26, 2007 09:11 AM

Hi I am in the same boat really, in a long term relationship and have always wanted to try this. I find my self looking at and being turned on by my friends but unable to tell anyone. I do not want to jepordise my relationship in anyway so have resorted to looking at this site.

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Posted on Sat, Oct 20, 2007 03:27 AM

Hi everyone! I haven't checked in for a while....been busy busy busy! Thank you all for your thoughts and advice, and letting me know I'm not alone! I have yet to act on my feelings or talk to my hubby about it. All in due time, I suppose. Life takes over sometimes. I'm still keeping an eye out though! lol Wish I had a gold membership so I could email you!! That's frustrating!

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Posted on Fri, Oct 19, 2007 08:25 AM

Hey Johnathon 54 I have to say I totally agree with you I to believe that life is to short and that its is important to experiece the most you can. I have alot of different fantasys that I would like fullfilled but I also worry about Stds. I have had a desire for years to explore different things one of the being having sex with 2 men that for me is a big turn on.

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Posted on Sun, Oct 07, 2007 02:50 AM

hi i see u comment and i hope to know u more am bi like u so i hope to here from u soon kiss remi from uk

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Posted on Thu, Oct 04, 2007 04:34 AM

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Posted on Tue, Oct 02, 2007 09:44 PM

I know how you feel. I told my bf that I am bi and would love to experiment with women and he said that he doesn't want to share. He doesn't understand. I just want to full fill my fantasy of being with a women. It isn't like I don't love him, but this is something that I want. I sometimes wonder if this is a bad thing to want too. But I try not to think about it. If it is somethilng you want go for it. Don't regret it. I hope to one day live out my fantasy. Hope all goes well.

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Posted on Tue, Oct 02, 2007 02:32 PM

Would love to meet tonight!! I am in Boulder can you meet asap. let me know, very bi curious

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Posted on Sun, Sep 30, 2007 09:58 PM

would love to hear more about you i am sooooo curious about being with a man and woman or event two men??

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Posted on Wed, Sep 19, 2007 11:33 PM

:-) If you were looking for a woman - I would send my application...friendly smile..But seriously, I like the way you think. Somehow, I was thinkind exacltly the same about STD's, public oppinion, etc...and in my heck of the woods - a woman who is looking for a woman is not O.K...Anyway - good luck and I hope you will have a story (or suggestion) to share with all of us (no need to know the names..:-) )about how was that what you were curious about.:-)

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