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I'm curious in more ways than you think....

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Posted on Sep 06, 2006 at 12:13 AM Total posts: 15
I'm just wondering where everyone is hiding...there are so many blogs and forum topics started but barely any actual posts. They've been read and read but no replies. I'm also curious to know if anyone else is feeling completely confused about our bi side. I am. I am very attracted to women and I also adore men. Top that off with the fact that my husband doesn't really now about me likeing girls. I think he'd be fine with it; I'm the one with the issues. Would it mess up my marriage if I physically acted on it? I'm struggling with the Christian aspect of it as well. Is it a sin? I hate these feelings! Does anyone else have troubles like mine? I need some advise or thoughts. I feel like I'm a bad person here somehow and I know I'm not. Thanks for letting me vent and worry.
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Posted on Nov 24, 2017 at 11:43 PM Total posts: 1

I understand what you are going through.  I am not married but , I do have those mixed feelings about women.

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Posted on Nov 04, 2017 at 06:34 PM Total posts: 1

hi hon I'm Julie

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Posted on Aug 24, 2017 at 10:39 PM Total posts: 1

I agree it's not as socially acceptable for men and that's wrong.  It's not just sexuality, men are not really allowed to have a wide range of emotions in our western culture and it's sad. We have these unrealistic views of masculinity - in the same way we have unrealistic expectations of the female body and the behavior of women- except we don't talk about masculinity as a culture. It's scary to be vulnerable with the people we are most invested in - we have the most to lose. 

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Posted on Aug 21, 2017 at 07:08 PM Total posts: 1

Most men, myself included fetishize female bisexuality so are ok with it.  Us men are not so lucky.  It would not bother me if my wife was bi, but I am and can't bring myself to tell her.

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Posted on Mar 07, 2017 at 10:35 AM Total posts: 1

I am personally dealing with the should I or shouldn't I game... I want to explore that side of myself but I am scared.  I have an amazing husband who fully supports me in whatever I should decide but this might be the toughest decision I have ever made in my life. 

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Posted on Mar 02, 2017 at 08:50 AM Total posts: 1

I think we all feel about the same way, yes?  We are conflicted with our desires for 'both'.  I was married for many years (she died some time ago) and she never knew.  [I had to sneak around and I am not proud of it.]  I knew if she did know she would have freaked out.  She once said those people who are bi-sexual "just can't make up their minds".  Well, everyone here on this site knows that is not how it works.  We don't 'choose' whether we are 'straight' or 'bi' or 'gay' or 'lesbian', we just are.

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Posted on Nov 19, 2016 at 11:47 AM Total posts: 1

I feel the same way wow glad im not alone....

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Posted on Sep 08, 2011 at 10:42 PM Total posts: 4
you never know till you start making hints. u may be surprised
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Posted on May 06, 2010 at 04:25 PM Total posts: 4
I FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO BUT I DID TELL MY HUSBAND AFTER 23 YRS OF MARRIAGE AND HE HAS ACCEPTED IT(AFTER 3 MOS. OF MALE EGO GETTING IN THE WAY) I'VE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH THIS MY WHOLE LIFE AND KEPT IT HIDDEN FROM EVERYONE I LOVED. I'M 46 AND HAVE THOUGHT THESE THOUGHTS SINCE THE AGE OF 16. SOMETIMES I FEEL SICK AND TWISTED KNOWING THAT I WOULD LET MY THOUGHTS GO IN THAT DIRECTION BECAUSE OF THE WAY I WAS RAISED(CHRISTIAN). I'M CONFUSED AND NOT SURE OF MYSELF AND SCARED TO DEATH THAT MY FANTASY COULD COME TRUE

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Posted on Dec 13, 2007 at 08:51 AM Total posts: 2
hey thanks for your input. i just read your reply and i am in a similar boat with my current love. we just decided that having a threesome would be fun and have talked about it for a while. it is nice to know that there are couples out there like us. :-)
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Posted on Nov 11, 2007 at 02:04 PM Total posts: 4
It's crazy. I'm absolutly in love with this married woman which is bad enough but then I also can't stop thinking about big cocks. And I am looking for some large ines in Lincoln, NE
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Posted on Nov 07, 2007 at 08:50 AM Total posts: 1
Same problem here. I am sometimes curious/sexually attracted to men, married and my wife does not know. She would probably freak if I tell her about this. No clue about a solution.
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Posted on Oct 26, 2007 at 09:11 AM Total posts: 1
Hi I am in the same boat really, in a long term relationship and have always wanted to try this. I find my self looking at and being turned on by my friends but unable to tell anyone. I do not want to jepordise my relationship in anyway so have resorted to looking at this site.
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Posted on Oct 20, 2007 at 03:27 AM Total posts: 15
Hi everyone! I haven't checked in for a while....been busy busy busy! Thank you all for your thoughts and advice, and letting me know I'm not alone! I have yet to act on my feelings or talk to my hubby about it. All in due time, I suppose. Life takes over sometimes. I'm still keeping an eye out though! lol Wish I had a PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP so I could email you!! That's frustrating!
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Posted on Oct 19, 2007 at 08:25 AM Total posts: 1
Hey Johnathon 54 I have to say I totally agree with you I to believe that life is to short and that its is important to experiece the most you can. I have alot of different fantasys that I would like fullfilled but I also worry about Stds. I have had a desire for years to explore different things one of the being having sex with 2 men that for me is a big turn on.
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Posted on Oct 07, 2007 at 02:50 AM Total posts: 1
hi i see u comment and i hope to know u more am bi like u so i hope to here from u soon kiss remi from uk
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Posted on Oct 04, 2007 at 04:34 AM Total posts: 1
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Posted on Oct 02, 2007 at 09:44 PM Total posts: 6
I know how you feel. I told my bf that I am bi and would love to experiment with women and he said that he doesn't want to share. He doesn't understand. I just want to full fill my fantasy of being with a women. It isn't like I don't love him, but this is something that I want. I sometimes wonder if this is a bad thing to want too. But I try not to think about it. If it is somethilng you want go for it. Don't regret it. I hope to one day live out my fantasy. Hope all goes well.
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Posted on Sep 30, 2007 at 09:58 PM Total posts: 2
would love to hear more about you i am sooooo curious about being with a man and woman or event two men??