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Posted on Sep 23, 2017 at 02:04 PM

Anybody out there want to share thoughts on this subject...maybe your married but your partner doesnt know?

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Posted on Jan 31, 2018 at 08:28 PM

Yeah, I'm married. It's a loving sexless marriage, she has never really wanted sex - and my sex-drive is still humming. I've been yearning to meet a couple and honey up with three. There's just so much to experience. Will I tell my wife ? Maybe. It depends on the whole configuration of the affair. Most of the time in the past she's been real good about understanding, and she's told me a few times to find others. I'd probably tell her, but not right away, and not in a manner that would make her feel bad.

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Posted on Jan 01, 2018 at 07:52 PM




Your first experience should be a real date - with lots of awkward anticipation.  Begin the romance with a hot soapy shower or bath together, to slowly explore each others body and build passion and excitement. After all, which memory would you prefer to carry through the rest of your life, Sweet Rose Peddle Bubble Bath fragrance - or sweaty armpits and stinky shoes?


Then retire to bed and keep telling yourself; - "I'm going to do anything and everything with total abandon - this may be a once in a lifetime event - and I'm going to do everything I can to totally enjoy it - being only in the moment..."  Even if you go on to be a full-time lesbian - this event will never happen again - your first time - enjoy it and make it a memory you can secretly treasure the rest of your life...


I envy you, your first time...  It only comes once - and you should try to break a record for the most orgasms in one evening... Everytime you think you're finished - start over - don't stop until an ambulance needs to be called for one or both of you... LOL...  Good luck to you both...

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Posted on Jan 01, 2018 at 06:23 PM

The latest psychology studies (all studies over the past 20 years) show that all women are naturally Bi-Sexual.

Heterosexual and Lesbian are the abnormalities. 


In one study women are shown attractive pictures of both naked men and women.  All women had a substantial physical sexual arousal by the pictures of both men and women.  While only straight and bisexual men had any physical arousal of the pictures of naked women - gay men had no arousal of naked women at all - and only gay and bisexual men had any arousal of naked men... Showing that Gay and bisexuality is a life choice in men and bisexuality is hardwired into ALL women.


Another study took thousands of straight women and told them they were studying how difficult it is for women to make friends with strangers - they then teamed them up with attractive lesbians, who were instructed to become their friends and then see if they can be seduced.  At the end of the 10-year study - 100% of the straight girls reported that they allowed themselves to be seduced by their lesbian friend - and looked forward to possibly doing it again.


It is estimated that 90% of women have a lesbian relationship with a family member, a high school friend, or college roommate during their adolescence - but except in clinical study environments - very few ever admit to it.  Straight girls ignore these relationships as being meaningless adolescent experimentation.  The Gay community denies Bisexual Women even exist - because it denies their political claim that they were born Gay and deserving of special constitutional rights.  So the world is afraid to admit to the truth - ALL WOMEN ARE NATURALLY BISEXUAL.


Do not allow yourself to feel guilty for behaving normally.  If you are sneaking around and betraying your commitments - that is another issue...  But women evolved as Bi-Sexual to help raise the children after the man had impregnated her and left - before religion decided that women are only allowed one sexual partner per lifetime - back before couples were forced together in monogamous lifelong marriages.


Women who ignore their Bisexuality, or are shamed into denying it exists - are ignoring and denying half of their nature.  This is probably why so many women are miserable in a monogamous heterosexual, or even monogamous lesbian, relationships.  They are denying half of their feminine nature.


And now a word about men:  Ladies, there is not a man out there that would object to you offering to have a threesome with an attractive girlfriend of yours... If you do not want to openly say that you brought her to your bed for yourself - tell him: she asked if you would arrange it and you got really turned on with the idea of seeing him doing her - and you can naturally share everything she has to offer you both... Wait for a special occasion, like his birthday, or your anniversary together...  He will love you for it all the more...  And after the first time - she can start talking about moving in with you both, and he will think it was his idea... Girls, you MUST make him a deal - she can move in and join the two of you in your bed - ONLY if he keeps his mouth shut about what the three of you did last night!  It makes it sound like a compromise - he gives up bragging rights to get her in bed with you both - but in reality - you get everything you started out trying to achieve...


By the way, this is a common living arrangement.  The Mormons call it polygamy, southerners call it sister-wives, in Asia they have a version called polyandry, I prefer to call it a harem, and it is a legal form of marriage in the 50 most populated countries of the world...  This works when men bring another man to their bed for their wife's enjoyment, as well... 


If you wish to be even more stealthy - when your boyfriend is home - bring the girls over for a lesbian love in - the more the better. Do Not tell your boyfriend what you have planned - and when everyone is sitting around drinking and relaxing together - casually start a game of truth or dare. very slowly make the dares more and more erotic - until the situation has become a lesbian orgy - your boyfriend will think he had died and gone to heaven - especially if each of you ladies make sure he is treated right...   


If you doubt it - you do not know men, for one - and for two, just ask any number of the bisexual couples on the site looking for a beautiful young lady to come to their bed with them...  They will tell you - a man will never pass up the opportunity to lay conquest upon as many women as he can - it is his nature and desire to spread his seed as far and wide as possible.


Then you can be truly bisexual - having your man and your girlfriend in your bed every night together...  If you take this advice, and it fails you, pack up and move in with me...  I'm looking to build a harem of 6-Bisexual women and 2-bisexual men...  We will have a wonderfully full life together...  But, I am sure my advice is legitimate and will not fail you...


Men, this also works when bringing another man to your bed as well.  Start out slow, have your friends make out with your wife until she is crazy with desire, and dare each of your friends to eat her pussy, and suckle her nipples, until she Cums a dozen times. Then dare your friends to suck each other off in front of her.  Sooner than later, she will be daring you to suck your boyfriend off in front of her...  After the first night - you can tell her that your friends want to know if they can come over again - every week.  That way you both get all the Cock you can handle...



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Posted on Oct 11, 2017 at 02:03 PM

Wish you were closer. I have one time, years ago! I have a boyfriend and I started breaking the Ice awhile back. I Want/Need to at least one more time. I understand that a lot of people Will Not Understand but I am Comfortable able keeping it quiet and to myself. In Life, No One has to tell Everyone Everything 

Please, don’t feel bad for how you Feel 

it’s worst living your whole life without What you need. Good Luck:-))

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Posted on Oct 09, 2017 at 06:36 PM

Just a little confused about having the urge to  crave a nice cock, but at the meantime, LOVE the smell, taste of a nice pussy.  

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Posted on Oct 09, 2017 at 11:05 AM

I'm married too and I haven't shared my feelings of being with another woman sexually with my husband.  I'm certain he would love to watch, but that would make me uncomfortable and I really want to focus pleasuring myself and my female partner.  Hence, I don't believe I would feel guilty.  I will let you know after my first experience. 


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