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Posted on May 06, 2018 at 11:03 AM

New user here.  Bi guy in search of a bi woman or couple.  In past two days, since signing up, I've sent about 50-60 "hello" messages to people and haven't gotten any responses.  I know my profile could be more complete, but I'm wondering if this site has very low traffic, or if perhaps I'm using it wrong??  I would have assumed there would be more bi people ISO similar people.  Or, perhaps there's just not much of an appetite from single women or couples looking for a bi guy??

 

Has anyone else had a similar experience?  Would love to hear all thoughts (and if your interested in chatting, please reach out!)


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Curious user hoping/wanting to have some success on this site
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Posted on Oct 21, 2018 at 08:34 PM

We are out here. Don't get discouraged. Blog more/look more. We found this site 9yrs ago... it was very safe, fun and exciting experience. This site has actually come a long way, since we were on it before. There are tons of couples looking for singles to slide in beteeen them. This site is very clean and respectful, which is what has brought us back to find good people. 


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Posted on May 30, 2018 at 05:01 PM

This site, unfortunately, seems to be just an ad posting. While it does reasonably well with it's profile and 'looking for...' posts, there is not much of a community. 

 

This seems to be the issue among bisexuals, since we can 'pass' as either straight or gay, there seems to be an aversion to creating a bi specific community. Sure, Tinder is there, but how many are really going to find good, close connections from Tinder and it's common app styles? 

 

Frustrations are high, and heading into Pride month seems to make it all the more frustrating. I do have a Bi community only a couple hours away, and perhaps I will find myself in DC during that Pride festival. I know a lot of non-straight men among HOW and GAMMA that will be there, maybe even a couple with their wives and or boy friends... and yet almost all identify as gay... 

 

Anyone else looking for a friendly social outlet near Baltimore that would allow for a collection of friends to create something new? 


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Posted on May 23, 2018 at 10:16 PM

I don't think people get on here much. It might be more productive to just make a tinder and ask for bi people only in the bio.


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Posted on May 06, 2018 at 02:42 PM

Similar experience, as bi-curious becoming discouraged.


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