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Why is this so hard?

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Pretty Bi, secure, married. Just wanting to have the sensual experience with anothe woman like myself. Not looking to change homes, families, careers, just looking to enjoy the feel and caress of woman to woman. I really think so may of my friends feel the same way and are afraid to act on the feelings and desires. Can someone tell me how to meet woman like myself without outing the entire town?
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I am engaged to a wonderful and sexy man who drives me completely insane. A few months ago he told me he may be bisexual and that he had sex with a man before and when we party he often desires a man be included for both of us to explore our ultimate pleasure. I have spent some time thinking about his fantacy and I have also experienced woman on woman and I am thinking maybe a bisexual couple may be an exciting way to test our deepest bisexual desires.
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I agree with everyone. It is very hard to find a likeminded woman that wants to be in a relationship with both a woman and a man and that can handle it. My hubby and I are currently looking and we have had no respones as of yet. I do not want to pay for a site that we dont get replys. Not sure how much longer we will be on here but I would really like to find a woman to love and touch. I feel like I have tried everything other than going out to clubs and bars (not our thing).

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actually just joined site boyfriend & I have been wanting to try this for years just never really had the opportunity o meet others like us. we are heading to AC this wkend hoping to maybe meet another couple,or singles interested in same. staying overnite just in case we do get lucky enough to meet someone to play with
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You people here are all nuts UR never going to get any answers because NoOne knows where You are!!!!

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I'll talk to you, I'm Looking too!!

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I wish i could figure that out too. i live in a small indiana town and my husband and i are looking. it is sooo hard. we have kids so need to be discreet for them. i have never done this before and don't know how to meet women. i want to find someone and talk and if we click see where it will go. i don't want it to get messy and definately hope for no jealousy. but i am clueless as to how to make it happen
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I agree with the posts. Seems as if people are here just for an online fling and not interested in meeting. I left the site for over a year because of the lack of direction from many on this site, however, I'm giving it another try just to see what happens. Happy surfing......:-)
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Interested biwoman right here. I'm totally serious about getting together.
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We have been members here since sep. We have physically met up with 2 couples from this site. Both couples were really nice, but we clicked with the second one we met better. We are now in a long term bi-bi relationship.. it has been wonderful :-). I think i must have e- mailed 200 members tho, and gotten about 10 back... lots of people just aren't out there anymore (i figure). But keep it up, we have found some quality friends ;-)
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We know what everybody are saying....it is hard to find people that are like minded but finally we have some good friends now with benefits...we are in Delaware so if anybody would like to meet up and see how things go feel free to write...we are a bi-couple and my husband loves the idea of me with other women...he is so turned on by it and I am so turned on by having him play with other like-minded men also...so erotic...so much pleasure...well, let us know...
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Quoting fonzers123:

no shit, i'm in the same boat as u and actually paid for this site. no one will talk to me. feels like high school all over again. i just want a friend and to experiment.

 

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Not a whole lot of action on this site, I haven't been here long but not many 'real' people around my area.

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Maybe you should add your pic and then we can comment. I am just sayin...

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Fonzers your so incredibly hot.I find it hard to believe that you don't get any attention.your pretty I know my wife would think you are as well.I wish I had a woman to seduce my wife.she needs a touch of a woman
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no shit, i'm in the same boat as u and actually paid for this site. no one will talk to me. feels like high school all over again. i just want a friend and to experiment.

 

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i agree wit them but i can talk much my girlfriend left me for another gurl so i am in spencer ia

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I agree with you. I am a professional, married woman that would really like to meet another women for a friends with benefits or long term relationship. My husband supports my desire and is interested in a threesome but is totally ok with my ground rules. I have no idea how or where to meet someone but I am begining to believe that these sites are not the way to go. Does anyone have any suggestions about how I can meet a caring, sexy woman to fulfill my desires and enhance my life?
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I agree. I don't understand why this is so hard. My love and I have something really good together, and we want to share it. Before I met him I would have killed for something like this. Imagine two people, not just one, two people wanting you and caring about you. Sounds good to me... Good enough that I'm out searching for it. :)
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I agree.  You cant even get anyone to respond to your email or wink.  How many responses do you have to send out to get a single reply? Tired of the bar scene, but I may have to go back to meeting people that way.

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I also have to agree with you. It does appear on this and all the other sites that people are more talk than action, especially women. I think they convince themselves that if they are going to go through with it, it has to be an absolute perfect situation, which they never find in the first place. All I have ever wanted in this world is to meet someone, fall in love, get married and have kids. I would like to meet someone bi because I am bi too and I don't want there to be any wandering thoughts between us. I am terrible at meeting women in person.