Am I the only bisexual heterosexual? Bisexual questions Forward to friends

  • View author's info Author Posted on Jan 23, 2016 at 05:01 AM


    I'm confident in my heterosexuality. So much so, I'm willing to admit that I also have a certain amount of homosexuality in my sex drive. I'm lucky enough to have had a few homo/bi experiences that have helped me understand the degree of my bisexuality, but being an outwardly "striaght" man, my bisexuality is really frustrated!

    I think I was born horney (!) and while I was obsessed with girls as long as I can remember, I also sometimes got aroused by boys as well.

     

    Thing is, while I crave bisex, I'm not attracted to men romantically. And whenever I've tried to find like minded guys on line, you're usually also looking for romance -- hand-holding, making out and cuddling, but i'm just being honest, I'm Bi, but not that bi.

     

    I'm sure thre must be more men, and women for that matter, who are not "curious" But fully bisexual in the way that I am-- having a need for sex with both genders, but only emotionally connectiong with one or the other.

    Ar am I just some weordo? :)

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  • View author's info Posted on Mar 23, 2017 at 06:33 AM


    I've been called weird and a freak but it's all good. I don't care what people think about me! So what if I like looking at a nice cock I can judge them I just can't bring myself to judge the looks of a guy. I can look at a cock and say to myself.. No that's too big won't be going in my butt only my mouth. And some I see I think oh yeah that's nice I would let him put it in both my mouth and butt. I also like watching gay porn but one thing I don't like is when one guy is getting it in the butt his cock is just flopping around. If it was me I would reach around or whatever position we were in I would be jacking it off! I'm a freak that nobody wants!

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 23, 2017 at 06:25 AM


    So far all I have been interested in is only the cock but it's certain types. I realized I have been attracted to them for the past three years now. I cannot judge the way a guy looks but I can definitely judge what a cock looks like and if I like it or not. I don't like hairy ones,veiny,or that curve at all...I only like white ones too! I didn't like uncut before but I seen a video on docking and I thought it was great and now I want to try that. Plus the more I look at them (uncut) the more I like them too!

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 23, 2017 at 02:07 AM


    You are not weird at all.! I myself did oral when I was only five. Me and another boy did each other everyday for 3 years when I moved.I can't remember much about it but I do remember getting on my knees in front of him and pulling his shirts down just enough to where his pecker ESS out.I don't know if we got hard or not. Then at six me and a different boy same age sucked each other but went a bit further. I remember he was bent over and I was behind him. He had his cheeks spread open and I was trying to get mine in his butt...I am now 39 and haven't done anything like that since. I've had dildos and other things like that in my butt but nothing real. I do love women mostly but I also am attracted to cock only...and a little shaved butt. I like gay and mmf porn I like to watch a guy cum alone or with help. I like watching two or three guys do each other. But kissing and all I don't like. I don't like facials. If I let a guy cum in my mouth that's where all of it is going. I don't even like my own cum on my face...it does feel good on my butt hole though. I managed to cum on my own butt. Felt so good! I want to have someone cum inside my butt though!

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 11, 2017 at 03:08 AM


    Hi, I feel the same way man. I look at sex with men as just that sex.. and in the last five yrs have opened my sexuality up to mm experiences and I love it!! I have only fucked one guy in the ass but really enjoy mural stroking and oral delight including swallowing a nice load of cum ... oh yeah !! With my gf its more emotional attachment involved but she loves me banging her to orgasim !! I also love male nipples mine are very sensitive and train them with clamps 😛😛😀😀

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 11, 2017 at 03:06 AM


    Hi, I feel the same way man. I look at sex with men as just that sex.. and in the last five yrs have opened my sexuality up to mm experiences and I love it!! I have only fucked one guy in the ass but really enjoy mural stroking and oral delight including swallowing a nice load of cum ... oh yeah !! With my gf its more emotional attachment involved but she loves me banging her to orgasim !! I also love male nipples mine are very sensitive and train them with clamps 😛😛😀😀

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 19, 2016 at 12:13 PM


    I suspect most people are bisexual.It seems the best way to define it is by percentage. I had always dated girls and at the same time had been currious about m/m sex. My interest in other men was a "currious" 10 to 20 percent of my sexual interest/desire. When I was 50 a nice guy I worked with came on to me. I finally got the courage to give it a try. It was one of the best things to ever happen to me. I would say my attraction to men now is 60% and sometimes as high 100%, but at the same time I am still very attracted to women and would just as soon have sex with a women or a man. They are both great. I think I'm truly bisexual.

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 14, 2016 at 07:30 AM


    I'm new to all this.  I think maybe you are bisexual but not biromantic?

     

    I am 100% heterosexual with a bi curiosity.  I'd like to suck a cork one time... then maybe annually if I like it.  Would also maybe like the first time to be broadcast "live" on one of those vouyeur sites... maybe.

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 12, 2016 at 12:00 PM


    Totally not alone, dude. We have a similar situation here. However, it has taken a good bit of time fielding questions online and at clubs. We have our boundaries. He knows exactly what he wants, and she is along for the wonderful ride. Others are out there. Frustrating how long it can take to find that one that "gets it" but they are out there.  Attending bi-friendly events really helps. Social settings tend to make quicker friends/matches.  All the best to all of us.

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 06, 2016 at 12:08 AM


    Girls seem to be a little different this way. Most of the bi-curious women I know are absolutely comfortable with the idea of entering into homosex the sameway as hetero -- kissing, cuddling, and gradually leading to full sex. A few are boob-curious, and really wat to fondle and caress another woman's tits, but (at least in my friends experience) those girls usually odnt want to turn it into full sex. 

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 06, 2016 at 12:01 AM


    I like "sexually versatile" but apparently that means different things to some people. 

     was recently told by somone on line that there are actually a lot of guys who are "cock curious" not bi-curious, per say, since they don't want the emotional connection or the romance/makeouts, etc. I an totally relate to that. From what i've learned on line, there are a lot of guys who start out fantasizing about cocks, not other men, and little by little their apatite grows from just the cock to the whole body and person.

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 24, 2016 at 08:59 PM


    definitely not alone. I here you loud and clear. I like being a wierdo tho. haha

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