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  • View author's info Author Posted on Jan 07, 2012 at 09:37 AM


    I've been confused for awhile and I've always thought about girls, its just usually in porno I'm not as hard as I am to this fat fetish I have for guys that I'm attracted to. Though I know I've been aroused to women before in porno on occasion and now I fantasize about girls I'm able to get hard...just not as hard as the fetish I have. I even imitated having sex with women with a pillow to make sure...but I'm still confused. I know I'm attracted to the fetish (and only the fetish don't like any other type of guy physically or emotionally) and I know I've always interested in women, I'm just so nervous and scared like I won't get a hard on though I'm not disgusted by them in anyway...am I bi? And will erection for girls be a problem. Also, with my fetish for fat men, I completely see myself as being receive and I've NEVER even thought of being dominant, that's one of the many things that I find gross and turns me off. Meaning I wouldn't put any of my parts inside them.
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  • View author's info Posted on Sep 29, 2013 at 06:36 AM


    im kinda were u are man. i am just coming out to myself as bisexual. as a teenager i always thought about women, and wen in college, i started to become confused, but ofcourse suppressed my gay thoughts, "Im not gay, how could i be gay if i like girls". This is why i dispise labels, it forces us to put who we are into a defined category, it sux...dont let it get to you. Luckily were born in a time were its looking like people are becoming more open and understanding about human sexuality. My advice to you, the only way u could find the answers is by getting out there and exploring. If someone comes into ur life that u want to be with sexually and/or emotionally...go for it all the way. The more experiences you have, the more youll learn about yourself.

    take it easy

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 24, 2013 at 10:48 AM


    From the time I was in high school, I liked looking at girls.  It wasn't necessarily in a sexual way or at least I don't think it was back then....it was more like "wow, she is so pretty"  But I noticed that I was drawn to the girls that I found attractive.  I have always had relationships with men but about a year and a half ago my boyfriend wanted to have a threesome....like all guys do.  We started talking to a nice girl and we met at the bar one night.  My first girl/girl kiss....It was amazing!  After that, I wanted to do it again.  I have had a few experiences and I have enjoyed them.  I don't know that I am 100% bi....maybe I am : ) 

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 04, 2013 at 12:18 AM


    I personally didnt find out for myself that i was bisexual until 28. I always liked watching woman in porno but I also am very much into men! I have never fallen in love with another female just because that would be too much! We would probably kill one another because she would want me all to myself and I am married and he doesnt mine my playing with other women but I get bored with women to easily unless they are special and can hold a conversation ( an intellectual one) and aren't complete ding bats. I believe we all have a bisexual side men and women but my husband says now way. But I include him in the play because I love for he and I to both pleasure her and her and I do vice versa! But too hard to find a single woman wanting to play with both male and female so no luck just cool ass chicks I have met! Good luck to ya all! Trust me if you see a girl/lady and she totally makes you want to give her oral without any ill thoughts on your side then your'e definitely bi but if you can see yourself pleasuring her then you are prob curious which i was but then it was soon answered for me! I am bisexual I just haveing a hell of a time finding a girl can be cool afterwards like yeah that happened but that was yesterday evening and it was great but they cant seem to snap back to being cool like before it happened they almost dont know how to act and that makes me feel like I made a huge Mistake!

  • View author's info Posted on May 04, 2012 at 07:29 PM


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    If you are not sure if you are bi or not, I can recommend the book titled "The Bisexual Option, 100% Intimacy" by Fritz Klein. This book will help you understand human sexuality.

    I consider myself to be bisexual even though I have not had a sexual relationship with a woman. I have fallen in love with a few, but they did not know or was not interested in me. I have had sexual dreams about women, and I like watching movies and shows on the subject of homosexuality and bisexuality.

    I believe it is because of previous lives that I have had that causes me to be bi. I feel totally OK with that and my feelings towards men and women that are erotic. I am currently socially abstinent, but now that my three years are up, I am praying and hoping to start a relationship with a bi man who is willing to commit to me and at the same time share an open marriage with restrictions. This is dependent on so many things that I am respecting whatever opportunities open up that is Holy Spirit inspired only. Meaning, I have to feel, believe and have it confirmed to be God's will for me as a servant of His.

    I do not judge what others or how others decide is best or right for them. I believe that this is a birth right and not chosen.  It is a blessing.  That it is between us and our Lord, God, or whatever we may call our Highest Self.

    Am I bisexual? Yes for sure. Will I act on it? That depends on opportunities that I believe are God guided and produced. 

    I like your comments.  Was your abstinence part of a spritual journey?  Just curious.
  • View author's info Posted on May 03, 2012 at 09:47 PM


     

    If you are not sure if you are bi or not, I can recommend the book titled "The Bisexual Option, 100% Intimacy" by Fritz Klein. This book will help you understand human sexuality.

    I consider myself to be bisexual even though I have not had a sexual relationship with a woman. I have fallen in love with a few, but they did not know or was not interested in me. I have had sexual dreams about women, and I like watching movies and shows on the subject of homosexuality and bisexuality.

    I believe it is because of previous lives that I have had that causes me to be bi. I feel totally OK with that and my feelings towards men and women that are erotic. I am currently socially abstinent, but now that my three years are up, I am praying and hoping to start a relationship with a bi man who is willing to commit to me and at the same time share an open marriage with restrictions. This is dependent on so many things that I am respecting whatever opportunities open up that is Holy Spirit inspired only. Meaning, I have to feel, believe and have it confirmed to be God's will for me as a servant of His.

    I do not judge what others or how others decide is best or right for them. I believe that this is a birth right and not chosen.  It is a blessing.  That it is between us and our Lord, God, or whatever we may call our Highest Self.

    Am I bisexual? Yes for sure. Will I act on it? That depends on opportunities that I believe are God guided and produced. 

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 29, 2012 at 11:48 AM


    Sexuality is never black or white it's a spectrum. 
    For example my entire life I've been attracted to women's bodies (large butts, lovely boobs etc).  I masturbate to pics of women exculsively.  However I'm emotionally and sexually attracted to men.  I'm married to a man and lust after men.  But if I'm looking at porn I'm looking at the women and the guy is an extra :-) 
    I don't feel confused I know after 41 years of life exactly what i want and who and i am as a sexual person. 
    don't apologise for who your are
  • View author's info Posted on Mar 13, 2012 at 10:18 PM


    Dude, I've been curious for a long time. I've got 2 kids, and enjoy screwing women. But I've also lost my erection on more than one occasion, mostly because my beating off desensitized my dink so when I had the real, wet thing, it wasn't tight enough. I'm not into butt-hole play, but I think another guy would understand how my cock feels and could elicit a better cum. Not sure I'll ever find out, though. Hang in there, so to speak.
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