I have had such a hard time fob every site I have tried. Mostly with men posing womb I women just to get naughty pics. It is very disappointing. This place seems pretty dead, and it seems I'm the only person who bothered to even get verified. But yeah men are the reason no one is having luck, because actual women are sick of the posers.
A few tips from someone who is verified as real and looking.
1. Post a pic of your face, no pic no response, this goes for any site. Make sure it's your face, because as much as I like to see your breasts or pussy, I want to know what you look like, also these men posing as women collect your pictures and use them to trick other women.
2. Get verified. I will no longer talk to anyone unless they find some way to verify that they are who they say they are. I don't mean I need all your personal details but I want a face shot with a hand written sign with your first name and username, as well as a unique identifier to prove that pic wasn't stolen. Or get verified through this site, it was super easy, all I did was take a pic of my drivers liscense with my phone, and clicked on the verify link. You don't even have to be a full member to do this, I'm not.
3 unless you specifically state you only want cyber, work towards meeting in real life, since after all that is what most of us are here for.
Newbee here also and can totally relate to being difficult in finding another female. Why have no idea but its become a challenge. I'm very attractive and in the Miami area, yes I'm married but hubby can just watch while I play. I promise we are worth it are you?
im new hee but, hopefully since everyones bi, it opens the door a little for me. usually i see and click with alot of lesbians on other sites. but once they know i have a man (who dnt complain about me liking girls)everything changes. Almost like they get pissed off that im with a guy.