Hi, Pussy Cat...I'm no expert, I'm just speaking from what I sense, ok?....There are just two things I'd suggest, at least because we don't know each other, but at least it might give you a glimpse into how I approach a relationship.
1. Well...girl on girl....its a relationship, and its fundamentally like any other relationship. I think it just has to be discrete. Again, that's just how I feel. Obviously there are people who disagree with that.
2. My personal view...it has to be spontaneous. I am, tell you the truth, tired of relationships, "bi the book", coz, it isn't really experienced...it is more thought out than felt. I think that means, that two people decide they want to spend time together, they both understand that it takes time to build trust, and learn what their friend likes. I say that pretty confindantly, because I think I would need to be patient, just to find out what I, myself, likes and enjoys.
ummm...I'd be interested in a response, but I wouldn't take a reply as some kind of "signal" that you were interested in me, per se....just, sometimes, a dialogue helps sharpen ideas....is that understandable?