I would rather not post a picture of myself on a dating web site due to work and the private nature of what I'm looking for in a relationship. I noticed a lot of women don't have a problem doing this and that is great. It just isn't something that I feel comfortable doing publically.
My question is, how do you meet professional bi-curious women without "putting yourself out there" with a picture? I don't have a problem sending my pictures privately.
I agree with you. Either submit your face or your body but not both. Tis site rejected my body IN UNDERWEAR!!! So I say meet at a public place and that's when you will know if you like each other. I once got a group of 3 others to shoot some pool. But one was practically married and exclusive. The other two must not have seen something they liked. So we just had a good time shooting pool.
I just request a picture with usually adding you to my favorites. I completely understand your position though, don't feel you need to put yourself out there anywhere. If we can't accept your need for discretion that is sad. Good luck!!!!