A plug is a nice way to start but everyone is different. If you've never had an actual dick in, try a sexy life-like dildo cock from Eden's fantasy. Believe me--with enough pre-massage in that hole, it WILL fit in... all the way... I use to get my GF to do it to me--she also used a purple double-strap-on dildo on me--when she humped me--she got off in her pussy too. It was hot!
Prostate massageer is a good toy. Basically the specially shaped dildo for men. I just saw a good one listed somewhere. When I remember it, I'll post. Well, I enjoy the feeling it gives me when my girl slips it up there.
I'm going to look for toys for my hubby. He doesn't have any. What great Christmas gift ideas.
Miss Dayna, thanks for the tips on sanitizing and keeping a plug inside! I'll pass it on or maybe use one myself.
Make sure you use plenty of lube and clean the plug regularly. Sanitizing it in the dishwasher works great or boiling water. Also, don't cantaminate your lube! spread the lube on a small square of toilet paper and then apply with your finger. If you try the stainless steel butt plugs made by NJoy, use lube sparingly or youll never keep the butt plug in. Hope this helps!