Just signed up today. Am married and live in SW London. Wife does not and cannot know I enjoy sex with men, although I haven't been with a man since we've been married (several years). Discretion is therefore everything, and it sounds like you feel the same.
Regular, discreet fun with the right man may keep me the right side of sane.
With a bit of notice I could book a day off work and spend it with you. Can you accommodate?