OMG I am in the same situation! I see pretty girls all the time, but I don't know a great way to ask them out. I'm so confident with men, but complete opposite with ladies. Does anyone have any suggestions for testing the waters??
I'm not in Monterey, CA, but if I were then I would totally hit on you! ;-) I know how you feel, though, it's tough to build up the nerve to approach a woman... even on here... it sorta sucks when you reach out to someone and don't get a response. Anyway, next time you find someone attractive... try just saying hi or buy her a drink... establish communication and see where it goes. The last girl I did that with ended up being bi- and I never would've suspected. Good luck! (p.s. if you wanna chat more, hit me up!)