After a few days’ communicating with a nice bisexual girl(add the link) online, you may be looking forward to having a romantic date with her. However, dating is not a easy things especially the first date which you want to be perfect. You will have to think about how to avoid silence and how to avoid terrible topics during the date. Here are a number of awful topics you should avoid when you date with a bi or bi-curious.
1.You Two’s Ex. Never mention anything about your ex, even though he or she actively asks you to talk and also never ask something about her or his ex. When someone really likes you, she will be interested in everything about you, but this doesn’t mean that she will accept your former love. Furthermore, if it is your first date, you talk a lot about your ex girl friend such as how she treated you, how you two fall in love or why you two ended, she may think you are still missing your ex girl friend and you haven’t prepared for initiating a fresh love. No topics are worse than this one.
2.Family Plans. When chat, we like to talk something about plans. But it is really a bad idea to talk your family plans on your first date with a bisexual individual. When are you going to marry and how many children do you plan to have? Or ask the other side these kinds of questions. What you do is to increase intangible pressure to your date. Remember it’s a excited date, please talk something easy for example how about your plan on this weekend?
3.Sexual Relationship. Since you two know your bisexual identity, you may know what she or he needs. But on the date you’d better not talk more things about sex. On the one hand it may let the other side feel awkward and on the other hard it may let you look like a immoral person.
4.Your Accomplishments. All the guys likes to say something which makes themselves worship. But please don’t indulge in yourself accomplishments. Nobody will care about how you enter the first-class university through your own efforts or how you get your leadership’s recognition. What’s worse, your words will make the other side feel extremely tiresome. So leave more time for you two’s close communication and don’t only focus on showing yourself.
5. Your Religion. As we all know religion may be one of the most important reason for two persons’ marriage. A date is not a right time to talk such a strong topic. It is okay if you two have the same faiths. But how about you two’s disagreement？
6.Discussing about money. Never ask your dates how much they make, or how mach they spend every year on the first date. Most people don’t like to talk something about money, which doesn’t mean they are very poor. A number of people prefer to keep it for secret. Also, you don’t need to tell they how much you make every year. It seems like your partner must tell you back, too.
These are all the six awful topics you should avoid when you date with a bi or bi-curious. Expect to avoid talking about sensitive topics, you need to find some interesting topics which can closer your relationship.